Welcome to Little Black Belt, a blog about life, leadership, learning, and the journey towards a girl’s greatest accessory: a black belt in taekwondo!
Hello! My name is Melanie, and I am your resident Tae Kwon Diva. This blog began as an online diary to chronicle the insights I was having about a year into my taekwondo training. There was so many ideas and epiphanies bursting inside my head that I had to get them into words. Taekwondo was both the most difficult and most rewarding thing I have ever done.
Over time the blog has morphed into something different. Practicing martial arts has not only taught me a great deal about the taekwondo itself, but I’ve gained insight about self-development, learning, facing challenges, leadership, adopting a positive attitude, and living your best life.
My goal is to share those lessons with you.
Here’s the honest truth:
Taekwondo helped me rein in the crazy and create an awesome life.
Most of my life has been the uncomfortable (and unsuccessful) pursuit of a quiet mind. I looked good on paper with an education and financial stability, but mentally and emotionally I was a wreck. I was miserable all the time, making terrible choices, struggling with substance abuse, and falling back into disordered eating. Taekwondo lifted me up from rock bottom and gave me a fresh start and a renewed and deepened purpose in life.It was hell until I woke up and realized what was happening. I looked to taekwondo as a salve for a wound. What I found was a path to inner peace.
Martial arts was my vehicle; let me help you find yours.
If you’d like to read more about how I got into taekwondo and my thoughts on modern-day practice, check out my interview on my fellow martial arts blogger page: MyWifeIsaBlackBelt.Com.
The black belt mindset is for everyone, regardless of martial arts experience or training.
The black belt mindset is available to everyone regardless of age, gender, socio-economic status or physical capability. Confidence, humility, persistence, hunger to learn, and not being a jerk can happen without setting foot in a dojang.
I want to help each and every one of you become black belts in your own right, whether it is in your career, your relationships, your health and fitness, your emotional well-being, or the martial art you practice, if you happen to practice one.
So this isn’t just about taekwondo? The blog is over when I get the black belt, right?
Nope. It’s about the journey, the process. It’s about breaking bad habits and stopping the endless chase for answers to the wrong questions. And OK, it’s also about jumping around and yelling and kicking. Taekwondo is FUN.
I was awarded my first Dan black belt in October 2015 and my second Dan in November 2017. As of 2019 I’m on the hot pursuit of third Dan and hope to test at the end of 2020. I am still here with more to learn and more to share. I’m on a lifelong adventure of awesomeness that doesn’t stop with my next black belt degree.
So am I completely blissed out and enlightened because I’m a black belt?
I still like uncomfortable shoes, that metallic taste of an ice cold can of Coca-Cola (MUST be a can, not plastic!), and mindless television. Not sure how well that bodes for my journey to enlightenment…but let’s have some fun along the way.
Wanna chat? Email me at mdgwrites (at) gmail.com or follow me on Twitter:
Little Black BeltTKD / @TaekwondoLBB